Pakistani families in the United States live in large cities and small towns across the country, including New York, New Jersey, Texas, Illinois, California and Virginia. Many of them look for a rishta in the US, and many look to Pakistan. My Rishta Pakistan is free to use. This page explains what American Pakistani families usually think about first.

Who this page is for

It is for Pakistani Americans, for Pakistanis living in the US on work or student visas, and for families in Pakistan considering a proposal from the US. If you create a profile for a relative, make sure that person knows and agrees.

What is useful to talk about early

• Where the couple will live. If one person will join the other in the United States, the immigration steps depend on the person’s status and category. Always check the current process on the official US government immigration websites, and speak to a licensed immigration attorney if you need advice. Do not trust anyone who promises a quick visa.
• Marriage must be genuine. A marriage entered into mainly to obtain immigration benefits is illegal and has serious consequences. Both people should be sure they want to marry.
• Time zones and distance. Calls between the US and Pakistan are harder to plan. Agree on regular times that are fair for both sides.
• Career and education. Many families in the US value education and careers for both partners. Talk about work plans, further study and how the couple will share household responsibilities.
• Family and community. Discuss how close the couple will live to parents and what support families expect from each other.

A simple step-by-step plan

1. Write a clear profile with your US state or city, your home city in Pakistan, education, work and what you are looking for. Do not post your address or ID numbers.
2. Browse and choose a few profiles that fit your plans about where to live.
3. Share them with your family and listen to their questions.
4. Have several video calls with the person and, when appropriate, with the families.
5. Verify details through trusted people in the US and in Pakistan.
6. Meet in person with family before making a decision. A meeting is more reliable than a long period of messages.

Safety advice

• Never pay anyone to arrange or confirm a rishta.
• Do not send money for a visa, ticket or “emergency” to a person you have not met through family.
• Be careful if someone gives you a hurry-up deadline or avoids video calls.
• Never give bank details, card numbers, one-time codes or passport copies.
• Report suspicious profiles using the report button or the contact page.

Frequently asked questions

Can I use My Rishta Pakistan from the USA?

Yes, registration and browsing are free from anywhere.

Can you help with US immigration?

No. We introduce families only. For immigration, use official government information or a licensed immigration attorney.

How can parents in Pakistan check a US proposal?

Ask for family details, talk to relatives, meet the family when they visit, and verify the person’s job and education through trusted people.

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