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Never Send Money Before You Meet: Stay Safe While Looking for a Rishta

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Simple, practical steps to stay safe from online marriage fraud while searching for a rishta in Pakistan. Free and private, from My Rishta Pakistan.

Searching for a rishta online has made it easier for families to find suitable matches. It also means we all need to be a little more careful. Recently, Pakistan’s National Cyber Crime Investigation Agency (NCCIA) reported an arrest in a Karachi case where a fake profile on a matrimonial app was allegedly used to win a woman’s trust and take a large amount of money. The agency advised people using matrimonial apps and social media to be cautious with strangers and careful about sharing personal information.

A genuine rishta never needs to begin with a money request. These simple habits can help you stay safe.

1. Never send money before meeting

Do not transfer money, gifts or load to someone you have not met in person with your family. Stories about emergencies, customs fees, business problems or hospital bills are common warning signs.

2. Involve your family early

Share the conversation with parents or a trusted elder. A second opinion helps you notice details that feel wrong, and a sincere proposal will welcome family involvement.

3. Verify before you trust

Check that the person’s name, city, job and family details stay consistent. Ask for a video call, and meet in a public place with family present. Be careful if someone avoids calls or keeps changing their story.

4. Protect your photos and personal details

Avoid sharing private photos, CNIC copies, bank details or passwords. Information shared too early can be misused later.

5. Report suspicious profiles

If something feels wrong, stop contact, keep screenshots and messages, and report the profile to the platform. If you have lost money or are being threatened, you can complain to the relevant cybercrime authorities. You can also report suspicious profiles to us at MyRishta.pk.

Taking time and involving your family is not a sign of mistrust. It is part of finding a rishta the right way.

Source: Daily Pakistan, 30 October 2026. This article is for general awareness and is not legal advice.

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